THE NEGATIVE ME!

Liar

Excessive

Ambitious

Joiner

Obnoxious

Yeerk

Mean

Ambiguous

Ridiculous

Careless

Explosive

Lazy

Impatient

Naughty

Opportunist

THE POSITIVE ME!

Loyal

Excellent

Authentic

Junoesque

Open-minded

Youthful

Magnificent

Amazing

Reliable

Cool

Elegant

Lively

Imaginative

Nice

Observant

LOVE and HATE

Love and hate are one of the strongest opposites in our dichotomous thinking. Why then unhappy love often turns into deep hate and ruined relationships? A person in love loves everyone. This overwhelmingly positive feeling can change the world drastically. A person in hate becomes an enormous destructive force. It drives to an abyss of violence.

Have you ever experienced real light of love and real darkness of hate?

Love may be more powerful than hate because, as it was in the song, love can lead to hate, whereas hate never, even metaphorically, produces love. Love is more powerful because it gives birth to new positive challenges. Love changes a person, enriches the world, extends the horizons, enhances opportunities, brightens friendships, and deepens emotions. A person in love has a specific aura, a peculiar kind of energy that is given off, scattered in all directions, like the light of the myriads of stars, sliding through ages, celebrating Juliet, Laura, Natasha, Ophelia, Desdemona, all those love stories, powerful in their complexity of feelings and emotions, all about eternal love.

But love can go away. It simply disappears, vanishes. So powerful to disappear, or love never goes away. Love's components are intimacy, passion, and commitment, with all their variations. Consummate love that balances them all is rare. If Romeo and Juliet had lived longer, would they have loved each other with the same intimacy, passion, and commitment? I have doubts. Love is powerful because it can transform. It is, in fact, a transforming process of flexible relationships, in which intimacy remains stable. 

Who ever lived to hate? Love is powerful because it drives, navigates, directs, and makes our existence meaningful. Hate invites loneliness, whereas love denies it. Hate ruins personality, whereas love builds ego identity. Hate results in acts of violence, whereas love leads to amazing acts of kindness. Hate destroys, whereas love creates. Hate is war, whereas love is peace. Hate is bad, whereas love is good. Hate is revenge, whereas love is construction. Hate is meaningless, whereas love is meaningful. It is impossible "to love to hate". It is always "love" that gives birth to "love". That's why love is more powerful than hate, if you follow me.

Discover your powers. Discover love in yourselves. Be sure you're more powerful to love than to hate. Keep love inside, and all will be always fine. 

TRUE FRIENDSHIP

     A true friendship has many memories, both good and bad, but all are important. When you can look at them when something is wrong and they know it just by their eyes and all they have to do is offer a hug and you feel a thousand times better. Friends can stay up all night on the phone talking for hours without even realising it. When you know that they'd never lie to you and would never hurt you and if they did you know that it would only be for your benefit. Sometimes you wonder how she knew, but then you realize that's just how close you are. They can make you laugh when skies are the darkest and they're there with a good movie and some popcorn when your totally depressed! There is a great deal to learn about friendship. ure? You know you have a friend for life when they answer the phone at one in the morning because you can't sleep and have a lot on your mind and they don't care about talking about nothing to get your mind off everything. Have you ever noticed that when a friend is happy you find yourself happy too, even when it has nothing to do with you? To a friend I've found that nothing ever sounds stupid, funny or unbelievable and you never feel stupid saying whatever it is. As quoted by Oscar Wilde, "Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friends success. A few unspoken rules on friendship is that friends never "forget" to call. Don't diss your friends, love them instead. Some of the things learned are that there are many good friends around, but true best friends are hard to come by. Do not date their ex boyfriends, but onlydate ex boyfriends if having permission.